Cat escape the shadow of the tricks

 Will see that the shadow of their own crazy.
However, Tom and Toby finally have found their own solutions. Tom is always close their eyes. Toby's approach is always stay in the shadows of other things.
This fable shows that a little mental problem is how to become more psychological problems.
can say that all psychological problems are derived from the distortion of the facts. What facts it? We mainly those suffering negative events.
because of the pain experience, we do not want to face the negative events. However, once occurred,Discount UGG boots, negative events that is destined to be with us for life We can do them up but is repressed into the subconscious to go, this is the so-called forgotten.
However, their subconscious will still continue to play a role. And, even if we forget the facts get worse again, these the fact that the accompanying pain will still attack us, we somehow sad, and can not suppress. This pain Let us further effort to escape.
development to the end, the solution often is this two: either, we Tom, like kittens, like, completely distorting their own experience of life in all the important facts are ignored negative; or, we, like kittens, like Toby, simply join their suffering to all of their things were very bad, since the everything is so bad, that make their most original sad event not ache so much.
clouds mental hospital consultant, said Li Ling, 99% of drug users had a painful experience. they are the reason drugs, is to Let yourself escape the pain. It's like hide in the shadows, painful truth is a devil, the devil in order to avoid this, simply to sell more of the devil himself.
many alcoholic adults, they have had an alcoholic and abusive father, father survive a lot of torture. to forget the pain, they learn the same way.
addition to these tangible wrong way,cheap UGG boots, we humans have invented a myriad of diverse way to avoid pain,Bailey UGG boots, Freud referred to as psychological defense mechanisms of these methods. too painful, these defense mechanisms is necessary, but worse, if the distortion of the facts of psychological defense mechanism is so intense, it will take more psychological problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, multiple personality, and even schizophrenia.
really only one way to reach health mmm face the pain. face the pain would get a lot from the pain of unexpected harvest, they will eventually become the life of the party of wealth.
Remember: shadow and light, as are the wealth of life.
one of the most important psychological law is, no matter how painful, you are to escape can not afford. You can only go brave face it and resolve it, beyond it, and it finally reached a settlement. If you own a temporary shortage of power, you can find help, find friends and relatives for help,bailey UGG boots, or seek professional help, you trust go with you face these painful things.
Rogers, American psychologist, was the most lonely person, but when he resolved to face this fact and after he became a true master of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank has a tyrannical and alcoholic stepfather and a bad mother, but when he challenges the fact and, ultimately, from the heart to forgive his parents, he became an expert in this area treatment; Japanese psychologists are horse Morita was a serious neurological disorder, but he challenges the fact and finally through the invention of Morita therapy hh them the most painful fact of life eventually became their most important asset. you can do the same.